Aristotle, Greek Philosopher contributed his thoughts toward others

I started re-reading a book by Rhonda Byrne called “The Power”. What I found was a really great chapter about relationships with others.What she says is Life presents everything to you so that you have choices as to whom and what you love. We have relationships with money, family, intimate partners, business associates and physical feelings towards things such as our cars, homes, furniture and stuff. As part of this gift we are given, we have the ability to choose what we love in people and we have the ability to turn away from what we don’t love.  We aren’t meant to manufacture love for qualities ina person you don’t love, but simply turn away without giving them any feeling.

Without giving them any feeling is not meant to hurt but to not give any energy towards that “feeling”. The feeling is what is energy either positive or negative. If you really don’t enjoy another persons qualities just relax about it and don’t hang out with them, don’t engage with them but you can respect them for who they are as a person. Be ok with someone else enjoying their gifts. This doesn’t mean that we are to argue with them or criticize or blame them in a personal relationship. I wanted to make a discerning point that if you have someone working for you that is not doing the job in the manner that you expect, you would want to be encouraged to walk them through what you expect not that you are trying to minimize them. We all have strengths and underdeveloped areas or areas that are not of interest.

My point today as Rhonda Byrne expresses that when you are a feeling of love then only the people who are on the same feeling frequency as you can come into your life. Some days you feel really happy, some days you are irritated and others you feel sad. You can be many versions of yourself. A person in a relationship with you can also have a variety of expressions within themselves. You must be happy to receive happy people into your life. We are not responsible for other people’s happiness. Everyone is responsible for themselves.

“Happiness depends upon ourselves”  by Aristotle (384-322 BC) Greek Philospher and Scientist

What does this have to do with your skin? Good question. If you are happy with yourself you are less likely to be sick or dis – eased of the body. When you are happy and your world is right, your skin glows with an aura. The skin cells and the body are more relaxed to repair itself during the night when you get the proper sleep allowing the body to do its job for you. Your body is designed to work for you to serve you to the best of what its given. When you drink that diet drink (guilty) or eat the sugary stuff, your body will not operate to its ultimate level because its working hard to get rid of the junk that you gave it. Remember that saying “garbage in and garbage out” the same goes for the attitude you have, the people you associat with, the food you it, the excersize you give it to help it run like a well oiled machine.

For quick fixes book a facial with our skin care specialist to help you de-stress for 1 hour.

take a long relaxing walk to de-stress yourself

When your body is in overdrive such as stress, fat that has accumulated around your waist and you feel fatiqued, get out there and take a walk, destress by walking off the mental stress which will turn your life around with simple physiology that I learned from Tony Robbins. Your body will respond and start the feeling good endorphins kicking in and the next instant your cortisol levels will go down and the benefits outweight the bad. 

Body waxing available at Indulge Salon, York Pa.

If you have been curious about body waxing, this is the place to be. Our waxing specialists are very confident in what they can do for you. One of the most important things to think about before you consider any type of hair removal is what the goal of having your hair waxed?

Have your legs, bikini line and full body waxing before your vacation at Indulge Salon York Pa

Do you want to have a smooth look while on the beach? Do you want the convenience of not having to shave every day or using those waxing creams that singe your hair off while in the shower? Do you just like the feeling of being clean?

All of these questions are legitimate. When you make your appointment at our location on South George Street, York Pa, we will take the time to listen to your needs, figure out what you want waxed and talk about the maintenance of your upkeep during the next few weeks. Learn more about our prices and the amount of time you need to allow the proper amount of time for your service.

You deserve a little more time in your day by not having to worry about shaving every day. Call 717.846.4424 for a consultation. Please note: we only provide fully body waxing, bikini, brazilian, facial waxing, legs and full face waxing.

I’m in Cleveland Ohio this week searching for answers within my peer group that I love hanging out with over a few days.  My head usually hurts from being stretched into “out of the box thinking”. After the third day of intense talking and hashing out different levels of conversation about a multitude of topics, I reflect and start the implementation.

Do you ever feel that you are being as authentic as you can? Have you learned to enjoy who you really are in this world? When you know that you can make a difference with the people that you work with every day, doesn’t that make you feel good about you? It should. I work with some pretty talented people from front desk to stylists and assistants and managers. They each have their own strengths that build on our culture within our salon to make it a great experience for our customers. I truly enjoy that feeling knowing that you will be greeted happily at our front desk. I enjoy knowing that you will be served well professionally with our technicians. We as a team transform our customers into feeling great about themselves with their hair, skin and nails. Our business is so much more than just doing hair or having a facial. We literally can take the canvas of a person’s face and transform them into beautiful or handsome. Can’t exclude the men right? People in general hide behind the exterior and are afraid to come out or be seen and expose those amazing qualities that are hidden beneath. What I love about the hair industry is that we can help bring confidence to women and men by polishing their appearance. Appearance is just the start of a breakthrough for some people. More confidence and self worth can create a new job opportunity that perhaps was not available at a low point in their life or the instance of a newly divorced woman that was transformed into a more confident person that can now take on full time work, raise the kids and start a new career for herself. That is transforming is believing in yourself to know that you can do anything with some exposure to whats possible.

All of this has not come without effort and pain staking training over the years. Is anything that we work on in our lives without some pain to get there? Wherever the “get there” is for you, think about what steps you have to take and what the actions are that will help propel you towards your success. Success is not about money all of the time even though most of us would associate success with money. As I mature, I think about what success is to me and what the value of that is to me at this point in my life. I choose to hang with people that enjoy me as well as my enjoyment of them. I have a very small circle of people that I spend time with privately due to the limited amount of time I have of freedom available. So I say that being able to let loose to share those fun times or cook with or play with or just be on the phone to share stories is really valuable to me.

It’s a shame to let others influence you in a negative perception which can change our authentic selves. Realize that we must grow and sometimes we receive information about ourselves that may not be positive but is useful in the development of who we are in this world. Somebody may have been sent to share that message with you to help you become more distinctive than you were or to help you see something even  better than where you are right now in your life. Take these moments as gifts. I know I have received a few of these “gifts” myself and I can tell you that I appreciate them.

My thought for you today is to be who you are and enjoy you. Continue to strive to be the best at what you do to share with others and it will come back to you.